What Is Your Weakness?

 

Look at the picture above. What if you were the arm wrestler shown on the left side. What do you think your chances would be of taking down the guy to the right? I think the odds would be against you. In the spiritual world, we fight against much stronger forces whose aim is to defeat our own strengths and place us in danger of hellfire. But what if there were a way to defeat something much bigger and much stronger than you? What if you could win the battle over your flesh which is always at war with your spirit? Galatians 5:17 confirms, "For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another so that you do not do the things that you wish. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law."

Look, we all know life is tough. Temptations are difficult. It goes without saying that Satan, the great tempter, knows our weaknesses, for he knows that “… all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Yet, just as he knew that Jesus had fasted for forty days and nights and immediately hit Him with his first temptation to attack Him there, he knows our greatest weaknesses and hits us there. We do not like to think about our weaknesses—we accentuate our strengths and diminish our weaknesses. In a certain sense, this is not a bad thing; it is only human of us to do so. However, the difference is whether we are diminishing our weaknesses publicly while striving to deal with them, overcome and solve them, or whether we are simply hiding them while privately reveling in them. 

Consider how the Bible describes our weaknesses. What is your forbidden fruit? The weakness for Eve was that fruit: “And when she (Eve) saw that the tree was good for food and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat…” (Genesis 3:6). For her, it became a tremendous temptation. What is your forbidden fruit? What temptation seems to have a stronghold over you?  Is it alcohol? Is it the love of money? Is it the opposite sex, the same sex? What is your forbidden fruit? Where is your Sodom and Gomorrah? When Lot and Abraham separated, Lot saw the well-watered plains of the Jordan River Valley and moved his family “in the cities of the plain, and pitched his tent toward Sodom” (Genesis 13:12). Yet, the very next verse states, “But the men of Sodom were wicked and sinners before the Lord exceedingly” (Genesis 13:13). Later, God told Abraham what He would do to the cities of Sodom. Knowing that his nephew lived there,  Abraham pleaded with God to spare them if he could find ten righteous souls. Yet, it was to no avail. As Genesis 19 describes, Lot and his family fled from their home before God destroyed those wicked cities with fire and brimstone. Peter commented, "For if God…spared not the old world… and turning the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah into ashes, condemned them with an overthrow, making them an example unto those that after should live ungodly, and delivered just Lot, vexed with the filthy conversation of the wicked: (For that righteous man dwelling among them, in seeing and hearing, vexed his righteous soul from day to day with their unlawful deeds;) the Lord knows how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished. (2 Peter 2:4-9)

What is your Sodom and Gomorrah? Is it uncontrollable gambling in casinos? Is it the bar where you meet singles for a one-night stand? Is it your girlfriend’s bedroom or the back of your car in a dimly lit area? Be brutally honest with yourself.  The prayer that ought to be on our lips is the one Jesus taught us: “And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil” (Matthew 6:13). Jesus, the Messiah, the Son of God Himself, was tempted by Satan!  And He overcame those temptations!  He did not give in and sin!  Man, I can’t tell you how much that encourages me! Why?  Because I now know that Jesus understands what I or anyone else goes through. "Therefore He (Jesus) had to be made like his brothers in every respect so that He might become a merciful and faithful high priest in the service of God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people.  For because He Himself has suffered when tempted, He is able to help those who are being tempted” (Hebrews 2:14-15, 17-18). And again, “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.  Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”  (Hebrews 4:15-16).  Think about it! Jesus was tempted just like you and me!  He knows how it feels.  He understands the struggle.  He’s been there and done that.  BUT HE overcame those temptations by knowing and obeying God’s Word (Matthew 4:1-11), and so can we ... BY KNOWING AND OBEYING GOD'S WORD. Not only that, but when we fail and penitently cry out to God for forgiveness (1 John 1:7-10; Acts 8:22), Jesus – our High Priest, our Mediator – is at the right hand of the throne of God saying, “Father, I know what [insert your name] is going through.  I’ve been there.  I was tempted in the same way. Be merciful.  Be gracious.”  Jesus pleads for mercy on our behalf and knows that we, as His followers, try to do better because we love Him.  What comfort!  What love!  What hope this gives us in the struggle we face! 

The Scriptures tell us that we all face temptations. 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man. ”God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation, He will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." Satan will never be allowed to tempt you beyond what you can bear if you are in Christ Jesus according to the scripture above. Jesus has not left you defenseless! Did you hear that? Then why do we sometimes commit sin? James 1:14 tells us, "But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed." GOD HIMSELF, NEVER TEMPTS US!  So what happens if a Christian gives in to any kind of temptation? God turns His back and kicks them out of His Kingdom, right? No. You must be sorry for what you've done, you must ask for forgiveness, and you must keep running the race set before you! Don't give up. The key here is, don't make a habit of your sin! Don't practice your sin with the attitude or belief God will not be displeased with you. He will. Never use your "salvation" as a free ticket, or as a "pass" to continue sinning willy nilly. None of us is conformed to the image of Christ overnight. Sanctification is a moment-by-moment challenge. It’s a process that won’t be complete until we leave this world and see the Lord face to face. Until then, our responsibility is to trust God and walk with His Spirit (Galatians 5:16). Every sin is “willful sin.” If it weren’t, we wouldn’t be responsible; and if we’re not responsible for our own actions, sin can’t be sin at all. As James says, “Each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is finished, it brings forth death” (James 1:14-15).  If someone is determined to live an unchristian life even after “receiving the knowledge of the truth” (Hebrews 10:26), we might assume that they never really accepted Christ in the first place. If they willfully commit the same sin over and over again without remorse and without showing any evidence of genuine desire to change, we would have every reason to doubt the sincerity of their profession of faith.

Until He Comes,

-Pat-