The Word of God tells us, "Walk in the Spirit and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh." There are two points we must understand first before we can obey what God asks of us.
1. What does it mean to WALK in the Spirit?
2. Really, what is lust?
I'll start with the latter using a dictionary to keep it plain and simple.
Lust: sexual desire, sexual appetite, sexual longing, sexual passion. There is not a human being who has not lusted in his or her flesh. It comes with our fallen nature. I know Christians at this very moment who struggle with forbidden sexual desires. If we are honest with ourselves, the only acceptable sexual desire, passion, libido, ardor, zeal is only acceptable within the context of marriage between a man and a woman regardless of what the world says it is! Anything outside of that is immoral in God's eyes. It is a sexual sin. Period. There is no getting around it. If you are lusting with your eyes or thoughts it is still sin. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 5:27-28, "Whosoever looks upon a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery in his heart." So you see, this covers even thinking about it. John told us, "All that is in the world, THE LUST OF THE FLESH, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world" (1 John 2:16). Jesus told us, "Love not the world, neither the things in the world, for if any man loves the world the love of the Father is not in him." What a tall order!! How are we supposed to keep ourselves from passion, lust, desire, longing to bed with someone outside of God's perimeter? We've all been guilty whether as a hormonal teenager, the easily aroused young adult, or a mature person without any self-control.
This is why I am writing this blog today. Specifically, for four Christians (however, anyone can learn from God's Word today). #1: To the one who has been living in fornication for years outside of the confines of marriage. #2: To the one who has asked for my help. You are tormented and driven to continue to fulfill your sexual appetite for a man you find attractive even though you admit it's wrong. #3: To the one whom I know struggling with her feelings for another woman. And finally #4: For the man I know that is currently cheating on his wife.
Even if any reader has no weakness in this area you may know someone that does. If you feel led, pass this blog onto them.
HOW DO YOU OVERCOME THE LUST OF THE FLESH? Jesus said by walking in the Spirit. So now let's tackle how we walk in the Spirit. Believers have the indwelling Spirit of Christ, the Comforter who proceeds from the Father (John 15:26). The Holy Spirit assists believers in prayer (Jude 1:20) and “intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God” (Romans 8:27). He also leads the believer into righteousness (Galatians 5:16–18) and produces His fruit in those yielded to Him (Galatians 5:22–23). Believers are to submit to the will of God and walk in the Spirit. A “walk” in the Bible is often a metaphor for practical daily living. The Christian life is a journey, and we are to walk it—we are to make consistent forward progress. The biblical norm for all believers is that they walk in the Spirit: “If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit” (Galatians 5:25, KJV; Romans 8:14). In other words, the Spirit gave us life in the new birth (John 3:6), and we must continue to live, day by day, in the Spirit. To walk in the Spirit means that we yield to His control (not what out flesh lusts), we follow His lead, and we allow Him to exert His influence over us. To walk in the Spirit is the opposite of resisting Him or grieving Him (Ephesians 4:30). When we ignore His commands, we make ourselves gods because we dictate and rule, excluding Almighty God from our thoughts, wants, desires, and choices. If you are truly a Christian, you desire HIS WILL, not your own.
Galatians 5 examines the work of the Holy Spirit in the believer. Those who walk in the Spirit “will not gratify the desires of the flesh” (verse 16). The flesh—our fallen nature under the power of sin—is in direct conflict with the Spirit (verse 17). When the flesh is in charge, the results are obvious (verses 19–21). But when the Spirit is in control, He produces godly qualities within us, apart from the strictures of the Law (verses 22–23). Believers “have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires” (verse 24), and now we walk in the Spirit (verse 25). What does it mean to crucify the flesh? Obviously not to hang from a tree, but rather to denounce, condemn, censure, revile, and vilify what it wants. Then the Spirit will step in to help. You will be able to overcome the temptation to commit the very sin that torments you to fulfill. "When lust has conceived (as a thought in your mind), it brings forth sin (the action, the fulfilling), and sin, when it is finished, brings forth death" (James 1:15).
Those who walk in the Spirit are united with Him and the bearers of the fruit the Spirit produces. Thus, those who walk in the Spirit walk in love—they live in love for God and for their fellow man. Those who walk in the Spirit walk in joy—they exhibit gladness in what God has done, is doing and will do. Those who walk in the Spirit walk in peace—they live worry-free and refuse anxiety (Philippians 4:6). Those who walk in the Spirit walk in patience—they are known for having a “long fuse” and do not lose their temper. Those who walk in the Spirit walk in kindness—they show tender concern for the needs of others. Those who walk in the Spirit walk in goodness—their actions reflect virtue and holiness. Those who walk in the Spirit walk in faithfulness—they are steadfast in their trust of God and His Word. Those who walk in the Spirit walk in gentleness—their lives are characterized by humility, grace, and thankfulness to God. Those who walk in the Spirit walk in self-control—they display moderation, constraint, and the ability to say “no” to the flesh.
Those who walk in the Spirit rely on the Holy Spirit to guide them in thought, word, and deed (Romans 6:11–14). They show forth daily, moment-by-moment holiness, just as Jesus did when, “full of the Holy Spirit, [He] left the Jordan and was led by the Spirit into the wilderness” to be tempted (Luke 4:1). To walk in the Spirit is to be filled with the Spirit, and some results of the Spirit’s filling are thankfulness, singing, and joy (Ephesians 5:18–20; Colossians 3:16). Those who walk in the Spirit follow the Spirit’s lead. They “let the word of Christ dwell in [them] richly” (Colossians 3:16, ESV), and the Spirit uses the Word of God “for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16). Their whole way of life is lived according to the rule of the gospel, as the Spirit moves them toward obedience. When we walk in the Spirit, we find that the sinful appetites of the flesh have no more dominion over us. Our whole way of life is lived according to the rule of the gospel, as the Spirit moves us toward obedience. When we walk in the Spirit, we find that the sinful appetites of the flesh have no more dominion over us. This is the Word of God. Walk in the Spirit daily (read and pray) and you will have power over your flesh to resist temptation and carry out sin. None of this is possible unless you are truly serious about changing and not resisting God. Because when you give in to your flesh, you are defiantly resisting the Holy Spirit.
Until He comes,
-Pat-